19 October 2026

AI in the House - It Grows on you

“House is used as a general sence eventually meaning life itself”

There is a wonderful saying in English “it grows on you”. Something or someone that you have recently met develops into a real compatriot fellow.

When I first came to England to continue my university degree education, I became aware of this phrase at Manchester University Campus. 1972 - I was so young age 18 leaving home town Adana and ending up at a place so unfamiliar. Within 24 hours I felt a phenomenal transformation impact. It was like metamorphosis, however I could not visualise whether I will fly or return to the cocoon way back at home. I must admit that my parents were audacious, daring and had a clear vision. I had to study abroad during those turbulent time.

And the only possible path was to take an exam in Ankara for those students seeking to pursue a university education course abroad. Which I took and successfully passed the exam.

Back than communications was only possible by writing letters. Therefore once I left my house it took me more than a month to be able to establish a proper address and started sending/receiving information. Even today, at this day and age isn’t it a tough decision to allow young children to travel on their own to faraway places? May be harder given the conditions of present world order.

I remember year’s later one misty night in1980, we managed the first automatic call from Tahtakale Telephone Exchange in İstanbul to Germany. Using CCITT R2 signalling protocol a locally designed electronic equipment was successful in reaching out to Deutche Telecom’s circuits. How clear & crisp the voice sounded to me at that instant.

Needless to say my 5 years abroad was enjoyable, full of learning and experiencing every bit of time. University grew on me. Soon I was a confident candidate to complete my electronics engineering degree. Playing chess for the university team was an amazing pass time.

Now that we have all became acquainted with AI, we are more than attached to AI suggested ideas, proposals, solutions and an infinite number of cases where we seek advice. More & more we seem to depend on AI generated opinions.

Take a family of four. Sitting on a dinner table after a long trying day. With all the smart gadgets online how many times a conversation would be referred to AI? Nowadays any surface or a deep discussion evolves around natural intelligence as well as artificial intelligence. Thus imagining eight individuals around the table is not an option but a reality. All of a sudden we all have our invisible friends, advisors available to tackle any form of doubtfulness, inconclusiveness and uncertainty.

AI is in the house and growing very fast on everybody

First not only it is administering and handling fundamental appliances, apparatus and machinery it is also supervising effectiveness, guiding efficiency and taking care of sustainment and preservation. No need to worry about resilience any more. “Ask anything” is the name of the game.

Second AI is winning the competitive race against NI in certain necessities. As children search a query, advice, assistance or encouragement from parents, there appears an instant challenge from their AI companion. Who and what to believe blurs.

The case applies to corporations just as well. Leaders will face confrontation from employees AI friends. Therefore who is talking argument may turn into a confusion?

Is it AI or NI?

Should we leave the floor to AI friends to come up with a definitive explanation, clarification? I have sincere hesitation on doing so. It is not disbelief, reluctance or skepticism. Left alone and powered it will take ages to agree even on simple matters. Thus intervention from NI should always be there to interrupt an infinite encounter and skirmish.

Third AI is growing on you as a thrusted associate. Therefore to handle situations, where more soft side thoughts, like feelings, are involved, there needs careful consideration. Practise caution, simply because to let the reins free, is not an option. Since a claim cannot be acknowledged and defended instantly, judgement should be nearby for on-the-spot occurrences.

Forth will AI evolve to ASI growing on you gradually, thus acting as roommates, classmates and comrades? Pushing NI to the side, will not be limited to cumbersome tasks. This is when the rubber meets the road. Before all hell breaks loose you should hold on to the steering wheel. Guide with respect, decisions with an AI influence may have consequences beyond every day life. 

Moment of truth is when, AI/NI assume togetherness in duty, role and power. Shoulder-to-Shoulder, eagerly and willingly take charge to embrace challenges. Carry and endure specific obligations to steer towards goodness for yourself, family, business and humanity.

Trip down the memory lane to very first telecom calls from Tahtakale İstanbul to Berlin in 1980, it is absolutely amazing to witness how the foundation has now evolved to shape humanities new horizons.

Final words: Now that AI is in the house;

AI/NI are not rivals they are to deliver results for the tasks undertaken to clear obstacles for future generation’s benevolence.

İcrayı San’at Eyle

AI – Artificial Intelligence

NI – Natural Intelligence